I am a 21yr old guy. I have recently lost in excess of 120lbs. I go to the gym now and am trying to tone.
With my weight loss came excess skin. I have been really lucky In a sense as my skin is only loose around the stomach region. My belly button appears long instead of round and I have some wrinkles around the bottom of my belly. When I bend over the skin droops a bit. I don't think its much but if I take my shirt off I have to cover my belly button with my pants.
I am 5'10 190 and 18percent body fat.
My question is to girls, how many of you would not date me due to this? I have been told girls are shallow and I would be better off fat which makes me feel bad as all my hard work has gone to waste. You can never tell that I was fat unless you knew me before or I take my shirt off and you see the small portion. My moms sister said that this skin will never retract unless I get surgery which I do not want to get
Is this a deal breaker?
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That must have required a lot of hard work and willpower. Any girl worth your time will think, "Wow!" not "Ew..."
Everybody's got a flaw! And, 99% of the time, if you are into someone, it takes a hidden set of tusks or a maggot infested wound to discourage you. Once everyone is laying down, ahem, even those might not be deal breakers.
That's the beauty of intimacy. You're not naked in front of the world. You're naked in front of someone else who likes you so much they forget their own stretch marks and cellulite and couldn't care less about yours either.
I don't know if I'd date you. Are you nice? Funny? Interesting? A little wobble is the last thing I'm paying attention to. I suspect a lot of girls would agree.1