My boyfriend and I dated for close to two years. We broke up a week ago because he was curious about dating other girls. I was his first girlfriend. What are the chances that he realized he messed up and will come back and how long do you think It will take? Everything in our relationship was fine except for his curiosity, which was making us both unhappy.. I just really need someone's advice, please?
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This happened to me when I was 21 and he was 24. Both of us were each others' first serious relationship. He went off to find out if the grass was greener then came back telling me it wasn't. He basically had a date with another girl and when it came to the crunch he got scared, realized she wasn't me and legged it! It took a while for me to take him back - I gave him a hard time. But as soon as I did he wanted to commit to me. We moved in together and got married. I was 23. The marriage didn't last. He wasn't the one for me and I moved on. I'm now 39 and at the break up stage of a relationship. Love him loads but he won't commit to me cos of me pressuring him to. Silly move.
It might make him realize what he has with you. Or it might not. I would take time out to heal as I did and start having fun. In my experience, all guys who finished with me realized the mistake they'd made and wanted to try again. But by then I've moved on and are over them. And it's quite satisfying telling them that. I know it's hard, but you need to move on and learn from this experience, as hard as that is.1