how do you respond when someone you are crushing on, someone you are in a relationship with or dating openly expresses how attractive some else is?
for example a girl I was on a couple of dates with told me that one of our mutual friends was "cute"...almost telling me this like I was one of her girlfriends... another time we were playing video games and she called one of the characters "sexy"...
sometimes I just stay quiet. sometimes I do it right back at them and do the same thing. I usually try my best to not act jealous or offended.
do you feel you are being tested or that person is hinting disinterest towards you?
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My boyfriend does it to me, it got to a point were he was saying it about everyone.. but never once complimented me so I made a point about it. He said he didn't realize he was doing it and didn't mean it in a weird way! I do it now just because I can, but I don't over do it.. Just if I find a celebrity attractive I'll say. Once I did say his friend was fit, just to piss him off as he said it about mine! I think it's to test you sometimes, to make you think there's competition so they don't want you thinking they're just so wrapped up in you. It's a jealously thing !0