The title pretty much is the gist of what my concern is. I have been flirting with this girl I became very attracted to out of the blue. It isn't a "wow she's hot" attraction either, there are a ton of "hot" girls where I go to school, but this one is different. I like her in more ways than one. It might be simply that she showed interest in me first. She talked to me and cheered for me at a sporting event and maybe it meant nothing, but I think it's what set me on this path to pursue her and look for a relationship with her. I grew some balls and talked to her in the hallway every now and again and eventually asked her for her number. Since then we have been texting every day and I am not always the one to start the conversation either. I was thinking about making a move next week but I have a concern:
All my life I have been shy and quiet. This hasn't always been a good thing because I have never asked a girl out before. The girl I am interested in is a very social person and a very kind person. I honestly have never seen her complain about anything or look down on anyone. This is part of the reason I am interested in her and part of the reason she intimidates me a little. If I do end up going on a date with her, how can I break out of my shell and get her to laugh at my jokes? I guess I'm looking for first date advice. Where and what were you doing, how did it go and why, etc. I want to have a perfect first date and not put her off with an awkward silent date that just feels unnatural. I want her to want to see me again after that.
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Don't over think things.like don't worry yourself.if y'all are texting then you're on a good start. Be yourself.she enjoys your company already because you're you.say what's on your mind and let yourself flow.i'm outgoing and some of my closest friends are shy.some shy people worry about saying something stupid, outgoing people say stupid sh*t all the time lol we just don't care! Good luck.maybe I'm a little psychic, but I get good vibes about you two :)0