So I just hung out with this girl today. I got her number last week and we went out to coffee. I thought we were just going to hang out as friends, but I think she thought it was a date because she let me pay and she was dressed really nicely.
Anyway, we met at 6. Had some good conversation. We're really similar and I think it went well in general. But then randomly at 7, she said she has to be somewhere at 7:30. So we left the coffee place at like 7:15. I didn't try to kiss her or even hug her just because I was a little put off by her taking off so soon.
What is more likely: she really does have plans, or she was cutting off the date because it wasn't going as well as I thought?
She was contributing a lot to the conversations. Asking me questions. Carrying out my jokes. Adding her own jokes. Etc. But this is just confusing me.
Like I said I think she thought it was a date... she would have taken out her purse to attempt to pay if she thought it wasn't a date.
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if it was a coffee date she knew it wouldn't be an all night thing, she may have been dressed up for the plans she made after she had coffee with you. which is a good sign she would try to see you and do something else. she could have easily said she had other plans but didn't. she probably thought she would see you for a while then go on to her other engagement. so take it as it is. she has no reason to lie to you, if she did its so she doesn't hurt your feelings (like she maybe going on another date but didn't want to tell you) you two aren't in a relationship she doesn't have to tell you anything. maybe ask her out again and say something like," if you don't have any other plans(on whatever day) id like to take you out on a date. pick something that will imply a longer date like movies, bowling, dinner, etc...1