So I recently started talking to this really nice guy who is doing his residency for oncology via a dating site. 2 nights ago we were supposed to Skype. He texted me at 8:00 and said he just had to get a bite to eat and we could Skype later so I was waiting for him to text me to Skype and he never texted me. The next day he apologized and said he was feeling under the weather. Then last night he again wanted to Skype and told me the same thing about going to eat. He never texted me and he has not texted me at all today. I mean I know he is working a lot, but I don't see how he has no time at all to shoot me a text or call me up.
He seemed really interested in me and told me I was gorgeous and asked why I was still single and claims he wants something serious with a sweet girl so I don't think he is un-interested. My question, as stupid as it may sound, is should I text or call him or just wait for him to contact me? Thanks :)
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Not sure what this guy is up to, but what you just described isn't really a dating thing, it's common courtesy. Once is enough as long as there is an apology (it's basically a standup in online dating surely?). Exact same thing twice in a row?
Nup. He's either:
A) got some sort of game plan for first real contact
B) Is terrified to talk to you in person
C) Just doesn't care enough right now (not you, probably the whole internet dating sphere)
All isn't lost because there is no relationship at all there yet, but here's my suggestion: Wait for him to contact you and keep going in your search. If he does, maybe ask him what happened last time. Respond when you have time to. Not instantly. Don't act like you don't care about missing the Skype call. But act like you've been quite happy doing other things other than waiting on him.
You haven't lost anything, and you don't want to sound to keen on a guy, much like I'm sure you don't like it when a guy pesters you a bit too much. So I say wait.1