So I've had an interesting year, before this year, I've never even had a crush on a guy...I'm on my second crush (I confessed my feeling to the first guy only to be rejected) I've been on two dates (if they can be considered dates) The first date was at the zoo, he brought his mother and I felt like a 3rd wheel the whole time. The second date was just this past Tuesday (oct. 9th) The guy bought my movie ticket, said he had to go to the restroom then ditched me. Yeah...those are the only dates I've ever been on.
The guy I have a crush on is really sweet and kind, just an all around nice guy...Amazing sense of humor, not to mention how passionate he is about film and movies (he's a college senior getting his BA in film, he wants to be a director and producer) The thing is, he's a really busy guy and I'm not sure he would have time for a relationship. I'm not going to be one of those girls that would complain that he didn't spend enough time with me. We hung out every night this week (sorta) I went up to the school every night because I knew he was going to be there working on something, and I would try and help him out anyway I possibly could. We also have some good conversations, and I feel like he enjoys my company, because the other night, we stayed at the school until closing (midnight) and he asked me if I wanted to go to Denny's with him to continue his conversation...we didn't leave Denny's until almost 2 30am.
My problem is that I've had really bad luck as mentioned above when I've approached guys, that now I'm too scared to, I don't have the courage...I know that the answer will always be no unless I ask...but how can I?
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What the heck?! Your 2nd date ditched you at the movies? As in he just went home or something and left you alone at the movies? What a bum!
I don't think you should ask him just yet. It sounds like this might be fresh, so don't be quick to ask him anything about if he likes you. Just continue being you around him, continue hanging out with him and whatnot. Let him be the one to say something first regarding his interest in you. All the best! :)1
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