After this guy got my number through a friend about a month ago he texted me at least 3 times a week after that asking to hangout. usually I was busy or just nothing feeling like hanging out...but we did hangout a couple times. the first time he invited me to go smoke weed with his buddies where at the end of the night he gave me a hug and the second was at a party and he texted me thanking me for inviting him and "goodnight :)" plus he has eaten with me and my friends several times.
then we kind of stopped texting each other for awhile...but now I'm kind of starting to crush on him and he texted me in the beginning of the week but I was busy so he said "but we should hangout...text me when your free" I then texted him twice after that on different days asking if he wanted to hangout...but he never replied to those texts.
What is the deal? is he playing hard to get? or is he tired of trying to hangout with me?
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You've been unavailable quite a few times, so he doesn't think you're that interested in him. so he doesn't think you'll mind if he doesn't reply quickly now that you are the one sending the messages.
He was probably busy when you texted and didn't feel he needed to reply given the pattern of lack of contact.1