this guy that I'm dating for 3 months now told me (for the 3rd or 4th time) that he hates/dislike fat people whenever he sees one because he thinks and maybe he believes that all of them are lazy, weak,stubborn and lacks discipline..
I just told him not to judge them every time. what if they're just sick or something. people who have this particular medical conditions such as hypothyroidism (dysfunction of thyroid), diabetes, etc can make them fat...even some drugs to treat certain conditions can make someone really fat.
my parents are fat. my granma is fat. I have a brother who is overweight. What if I become fat in the future? would this guy still treat me the same way as now while I'm still fit and sexy? lol.
So for girls and guys, would you still date him/her? and what are your reasons..
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Hate is a pretty strong word. If this guy lets his obsession with fat people control his life, then its a problem. I am not going to lie, I am sickened by fat people. I mean, look at children these days! They are bigger now then they used to be, and its because they are lazy. Yes, many people, mostly middle aged and older people have conditions and its understandable. But anybody 35 and under should care about themselves enough to want to not get large.
I have a young son and I work out 4 days a week, I take care of myself, and I want to be able to, when I'm almost 40 still be playing ball with my son, throwing the football around or whatever. I think its sad that people let themselves go.
If your boyfriend is rude, and basically dwells on fat people that much that it ruins your relationship, its best to cut ties, but there's nothing wrong with someone not excepting laziness. Every girl throws out that line, what if i, well don't get that way, why would you want to, for yourself, why would you want to.1