So I went on a first date today with someone met online. I feel like I might have talked too much, I barely touched my food. I just got nervous and overwhelmed with how attractive I found him in person. I am now debating on whether I blew it. He seemed to have enjoyed everything I was saying though, he laughed at all my jokes and at least looked like he was having a great time. But I read on many sites that guys can just pretend to be nice on a date to not hurt the girl's feelings. Guys, would you give a girl a second chance, even if she did talk a bit too much on first date? Or is it a complete turnoff hard to recover from?
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It depends on what she's talking about. I met one online who talked so much I deemed her a narcissist. She would not shut up. It was a problem more so because of the things she was talking about though. She started bringing up bar situations with girls and guys the the drama they had(like the keying of a car) along with all the drama she had with her mother right from the start. I barely talked at all and cut it off and she knew I was not interested.
Talking too much is not that big of a deal though if you're actually showing interest in him too. That's a big key. Guys give girls so much attention and if it's all about her 24/7 that would be a turnoff.
Girls also pull the same act of being nice on a date too. I've met girls online who would not go for a second date with me after I thought the first date went very well.1