I was thinking the other day and I got to thinking that the term creep may being harming the dating world. A lot of men who are not creeps are afraid of being labeled creeps. I went on a date with a girl and asked "What do you look for in a guy?" apparently that was creepy now I am labeled a creep by some at my uni. Now of course there are creeps but is that term being used to loosely now? Is it bad for the dating world?
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The term creep is harming the world period.
One of my buddies is an intelligent, chatty guy. Real nice too. He speaks without an ulterior motive, as in... he says what he means so don't bother assuming otherwise.
When I observe girl's reactions when he converses with them at parties it fumes me. They are so rude and uptight and treat him like unwanted garbage. Like a creep! When he says something within the context of the conversation they shut him down with "yeah -looks down- -looks away". The guy isn't asking for sex, he's just being himself. Then the same girls become free spirited butterflies when he leaves the area. (He's not great looking so that's what I know those girls are thinking by being so stand-offish)3