I'm a little bit awkward when it comes to flirting and dating. I've never dated before. I love to dress slutty on Halloween though, and now being in college and going out to parties, I get guys hitting on me even when I'm dressed normally. Any advice for ways to stay smooth and calm but let a guy know I'm not looking for anything?
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Be straight forward. I have been turned down many times, had tons of bs excuses, and heard everything from "you're not my type" to "I have mace in my purse" I think the best way I have been turned down is a simple "sorry but I don't want to get involved with anyone" She looked me in the eye and was sincere. She would flirt back and be nice but not in a leading me on kind of way. She was straight forward. Don't worry about hurting guys feelings, we get turned down a lot, but we also have fragile egos so don't do it in a way that makes us feel unattractive, and you can do that by just being nice.1