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I think we all know that women have very good memories, especially for something that was done bad to them by a boy.
So about two years ago, I took a girl on a great date. She acknowledged said great date. A problem, is that she had been broken up with her boyfriend 2-3 months earlier. I met her on her 21st birthday and she was particularly sad about the boyfriend.
So, after the date, around a day later, I messaged her. I think she replied that she is busy and will write back soon. This was her last message.
Now I had NEVER experienced a girl doing this before, and I had just moved to this town. It turns out MOST women do this around here. Extreme rudeness in texting, even if they are interested in the guy.
So I basically messaged her every 3-5 or 7 days for about 2 months. The messages got ruder and meaner, but simply asking for an I'm sorry. Eventually, obviously, she called me... apparently almost crying begging me to stop.
I said I would as long as I got an "Im sorry" After about 5 minutes of complaining she eventually apologized.
So recently, I ran into her at a bar as I was watching a friend of mine perform. She ran into me, LITERALLY..in an apparent attempt to knock my drink over. Though the whole night she was positioned in places that were in eye contact of me.
About a week later, I walked into her job. I had NO IDEA where she worked and this was completely random. She smiled really big and said "welcome" I realize this could just be part of her job.
So I was randomly looking to message a friend with the same first three letters of this girls name..and her Facebook profile popped up. So I friended her...a day ago to see what would happen.
And she accepted the request.
This girl is STILL my favorite girl I have ever met...before the rude lack of text messaging.
Should I pursue?
I am pretty sure she has been single for the past 2 years. And I don't want to stroke my own ego, but I am pretty sure I am one of the more attractive and successful suitors she has had in the past 2 years.
Or why is nobody commenting on how the girl should have apologized early on or simply stated she was not interested.
By the way, this girl apparently makes herself appear as she is an angel who is trying to find Mr. right on her Facebook.
She believes strongly in replying to guys and particularly to having the guy message her first.
She s a hypocrite and all you dumb f*** ladies support her.
HER: No just you make me feel awkward
ME: I agree, it is very awkward. But seriously, thank you. You not hating me takes a giant load off my shoulders I have been carrying for years.
And by the way, she replied very quickly. *Grown ups talking now*
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a general answer to your question: yes a girl can forgive. if he has changed for the better and matured and tries to make things right by pursuing her and becoming her friend, gaining her trust again, of course she can forgive assuming she is single.
as for your situation, it sounds good that she accepted your friend request and she said welcome at her job, I think she does have feelings for you and she is definitely not shutting you out, so good so far!
but I think both of you need to stop the immature games and the crying and begging, sounds corny almost and weird...u begging so she says I'm sorry and then she complaining? like whaaat? just be mature about things and talk things out professionally and calmly next time and I guarantee you guys will be fine.0