So I just went on my first date ever last night. I thought it went great, and I really like her and really want to see her again. One problem though is that I am so inexperienced that I am so insecure about every move I am making. Especially when it comes to physical stuff, I have never done anything at all. I didn't kiss her at the end of the date, although I really wanted to. But it's stuff like that, that because it's so new to me I'm hesitant to do anything. She actually held my hand for a bit when we were in a crowd, but even then I was second guessing it. So should I tell her I'm very new to dating and everything? Or should I just not mention it? I just want her to know that I'm not holding back or acting weird because I don't like her, it's because I'm super nervous.
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The question you should ask yourself is: "will telling her this make her more attracted to me?" If the answer is yes, you tell her--if it's no you don't. Honestly now--think about this for a solid 2 minutes. Do you think you telling her you're totally unexperienced and nervous as hell is going to make her more or less attracted to you? Is she going to think: "JACKPOT! An inexperienced, nervous guy!" or is she going to think, "wait, what's wrong with this guy that he wasn't able to get other girls?"0