Guys, if a girl doesn't kiss you/let you kiss her on the first date do you take it as rejection or do you respect her for it? Would you go on another date with a girl if she didn't kiss you the first time?
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This *just* happened to me last night. Everything went great the whole night. We held hands and I walked her to her car and she was sending positive signals the whole night. I didn't say anything I just went for it and she turned her head. I went again and she said "not tonight."
That's the first time this has happened to me. It's a terrible feeling. I know she is very conservative but I am having to think long and hard about whether or not to contact her again. That's how I wound up here! I thought I really liked the girl but as a successful man, I am not sure I am willing to invest more time and resources going after this girl if she is just not interested physically. Men have physical needs, and this is one of them. If the girl denies this, what is left for the guy? Any girl can order off the menu, spend a man's money, ride in his expensive car, and so on. But it takes a real woman to be able to support a man's needs, physically and emotionally. I mean, seriously. Here's what goes through my head:
"I just bought you a nice dinner. I can't even get a quick peck? Get outta here, bitch. On to the next. There's plenty of other girls out there. I can't believe I just wasted my time and money for nothing. Ugh."
Do I respect her more for not letting me kiss her? Hell no, less actually. It's just a kiss, not having sex. It doesn't make you a slut. You kiss your grandma.1