I have met this girl online. Long story short we send brief messages back and forth online for a day or two. I get her number and call her and ask her out on a date. We hit it off and make out at the end of the night. Honestly we had a great time. Well so she invites me over to her house for a movie and food.
I don't text her all weekend. She texts me back today (Tuesday) and says that she has not hear from me in days and is asking if it is safe to assume our date was off. I message her back 30 minutes or so later. I told her that our date was surely not off and I was looking forward to seeing her that night.
Well she then tells me she has some things she has to take care of and that tonight would not be a good night and asked if there was another day I would be free. I took this as a broken date and generally see this as a big disrespect for my time. I reacted and said "Everyone has their priorities I guess ill let you know". She got mad (via text) and said that she had a migraine and she was at the hospital because a friend of hers was in an accident.
Personally I don't believe the story but I'm not there so I can't say she lieing.
Is this a sign that she's a dud? Should I just take her word on it and not talk to her for a little bit and let her make the next move?
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Why didn't you text her during the weekend? That would have made me think "he is not into me. I go out on a date, we make out a little, then I invite him to MY place, to watch a movie and eat MY food.. and the guy doesn't even have the interest to message me one time?"
You may be a busy man, but how long could it have taken you to send a message during the weekend? Just one message saying Hey. If she wouldn't have looked for you, would you have gone after her? It's enough already that she had to approach you to make sure things were okay. It didn't mean that she could see you that very night, it was just like "ok, this thing is driving me crazy, I'll just ask him".
You don't know her long enough (lol, one week?) to know if she's lying or not. But then again, there would be no point in lying to you. Let's assume she's telling the truth. She's not telling you "oh well, I can't tonight, but I'll let you know when I feel like it". She asked if you'd be free another time. Clearly, she has interest in you, and you go and say "my way or the highway". Your attitude sucks.
"Big disrespect for your time". It's not like she stood you up, don't be a p****. Maybe you can be the one to spare her the problematic games, so that she can move on to someone who shows more interest.
"not talk to her for a little bit", yes, that surely is a mature way of taking things. If I were her, I'd just lose your contact and roll my eyes.