So ill try to make this as short as possible
Been dating my ex for 3 yrs, she breaks up the week of our anniversary. In fact I'm such an idiot I forgot out anniversary date. She always
kept track of the dates. I only learned dates after I'd forgot them once and it hurt so bad I never forgot them again.
She went on a work trip for 2 months during the summer. I talked to her a lot, then I didn't talk as much. My grandma had passed away one
month before and on top of that I had guests visiting and had to show them around the city. So I didn't spend as much time talking to my ex.
She breaks up halfway on her trip with me on MSN messenger. I did all the stupid stuff like begged and cried and all that. I waited
till she got back into town and talked to her again, but she would not meet up at all. So I became aggressive and she told me she is with
someone else now that took care of her on her trip. I don't believe it, because at the end she said she only told me because she wanted me
to move on. And so I became an idiot I was so hurt that she cheated on me that I posted on FB. She saw it and got more hurt and blocked
me on FB.
My sister later called her to talk and see. But they both ended up fighting and things got worse. I didn't contact her for a month to hope
she would cool down. My ex tends to get angry very fast and says tons of things she never means. I finally texted her after a month and
she was pissed and mad like I've never seen her. In fact she seemed to be more mad at my sister than at me.
Telling me how I had the balls to text her back after everything. I finally got her to a point
after the 2nd day to calm her down. She seemed more calm, but said she's happier and wants me to let her be.
She said she felt like she was stuck and she got tired of putting in all the effort. When I met her I was the one who put in all effort
and then she started too as well. Then I stopped and I kinda took her for granted and just lost my own self too. Now she breaks up and
it's like I wake up to my old self again only to see everything tossed and turned.
I did send her a sorry card a few weeks ago and I know she read it, but she never said anything back. And yesterday I decided to go to her house
and mailed a custom sorry card, I decorated it by hand inside to write out good memories we had and places we went too and all.
I added in a personal letter too and photo's of us and some of hers as a baby she gave me. I kept them all.
I don't know what else to do. I realized I'm the guy that fights for a girl. I fought for her the day I met her and it was hard for me
to come out and tell her how I felt. And it's hard now too, though I finally realized I owned up to my mistakes. I guess she is really
heartbroken and hurt. I realize I love her a lot, and I'd do anything I can to find a way to make her smile once more.
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you should just accept your present, she didn't love you as much for forgive your mistakes, and she is not in love with you to let her anger on the side and be with you. you has too much pride and you have done more than any guy would ever do for her.
If she is blind to not realized your love for her LET HER GO, she already told you she is happy being her and I don't think there is nothing that will change her mind.
Instead of thinking and killing yourself on how to get her back, work on yourself, find a new hobby, go out, get new clothes or what ever to make a change in yourself.0