"If I could get a dollar every time I see a black guy with a girl who's not black! *shakes her head* black men glamorizing a culture that oppressed them. And the girl doesn't even realize her dating him is usually a product of self-hate."
What is your initial reaction?
How do you respond to something like that?
Black guys, what is your response?
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As a black female, I agree.
Non-black females may not be aware of the fact that many black men of this generation have self hating mentalities, but they do and when they date non-black females it's a branch of this self hating perspective on dating and relationships. It's like they are oblivious to the issues in the black community and they just want to have this tragic, interracial love story that they dismiss any possible validity to the claim and just tell themselves that someone is jealous of them. Which in my opinion is very stupid. Convincing themselves that their man is not at fault is more important than facing a not so pretty reality. In their eyes, they're just dating a black guy, but it's like most of them generally do not comprehend the fact that most African American males are brainwashed and degrade black features which is why they show such interest in non-black women to begin with.
Black men uplift women of other ethnicities. That is a self-hating mentality for black men to praise and glorify Latinas, Asians, and white women while they sh*t on black women's features and belittle them for their genetics. A lot of black guys try to throw around the word 'preference' when in reality, they think non-black women are more superior. They show them more respect generally; for example, most of them will be extra sweet and gentlemen like to a non-black girl but not show the same behavior to a black girl. Black men of this generation are a mess. I've given up on them.1