Guys where do you usually take girls you like for a first date? Do you try to go all out?
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All out? No. Going "all out" on a first date are the definition of chumps. The point of a first date is to get the girl more interested and attracted to you than she was going in and to get her to agree to a second date. Nothing more--nothing less. The time to go "all out" (which I assume means taking her somewhere expensive, wooing her, etc.) is AFTER she's earned it. That's the sort of thing you save for a girlfriend--not a first date. So you do that AFTER you're having regular, frequent, mindblowing sex with her.
The guys who go all out on date one, tend to not make it to date 3. . .0