I have been dating this girl for four weeks. Things are not official yet but every time we see each other it is better than the last time we were together. I am really into her and like her a lot. We connect great. We laugh at each others stories, cuddle, and she is always trying to tickle me and play. I think its really cute and I like it. Things have been going really good but today when I talked to her she said she was going out to dinner. So jokingly I said "Oh you have a hot date?" Her response was " Yup lol" I said "Oh, that's cool" Her response was "Is there anything wrong?" I said no because I don't want her to think I'm a little disappointed that she is going out with another guy yet shows me so much attention. She knows that I like her and although she has not come out and said it to me I think she does since she is always asking me to come over to her place to cuddle and to see me. If she likes me then why is she going out with other guys? I know I can't tell her who to date or anything but why would she even tell me that?
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I think she's still figuring out what is out there, and not putting all of her eggs in one basket so to speak. She likes you, she enjoys hanging out with you, but you're not her boyfriend yet. She's probably the type to take things slow and weigh out her options. Plus, girls in our generation have learned that it's stupid to give 100% of your attention to one guy off the bat. A lot of guys will play you, not want a real relationship, or are also dating other girls for a while. So it's smart to date around until that guy tries to make things official so you know he's not a player.4