I have been dating this girl now for a few weeks. I like her a lot Thanksgiving was coming up and I thought about her meeting my parents. Problem is I'm not sure if that would be rushing things between us. How long would you date someone before you let them met your folks ?
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My boyfriend introduced me - the big deal you know, with the parents and 3 sibblings - after 2-3 months of dating (maybe 2 months of relationship). But I had met one of his sister on our first date lol. I was fine with it all, it didn't feel rushed, just a little intimidating, but I sure wasn't as quick to introduce him to MY parents. I don't recall when he first met my brother because my brother already knew who he was because we even started dating. Anyway so as for my parents, they met my boyfriend very casually and unofficially on a Saturday morning when they came to visit me at my apartment. They didn't stay for long - maybe an hour - and they didn't ask him any questions. He just happened to be there when they visited and that's how they met. My boyfriend didn't spend nearly as much time with my family as I did with his family but we both have very different family units - him still living with his family and me not living with mine anymore since 4 years.
I'd say if it's important to you and you know that you're in for the long-run, don't hesitate. Just ask your girl how SHE feels about meeting your family. It can be nerve-wrecking and not all girls are confident enough to "play the part" with a bf's family so early on in a relationship.But don't expect her to introduce you to her family as soon as you introduce her to yours, because she might not be ready for that. Doesn't mean that she doesn't take your couple as relationship as you do though, that's very important.1