I didn't realize I was going on one until I actually showed up and realized that she actually took pity on me, which is why she was giving one date for me but had no intention of going beyond that. It felt awful afterward and was bewildering during it. I don't know what to do right now other than lie on my bed and feel bad.
How do you take sympathy dates?
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Quite frankly my dear this is very rude of her. You should not accept dates unless you have an intention of possibly perusing a relationship of friendship or any kind of intimate one, with the other person. You shouldn't feel bad at all. You were confident and very brave to admit you wanted to take her out, and it's her actions that need to be reconsidered. I highly entertain that had she let you down gently you could move on much quicker and find someone willing to date you properly.
So don't take it too badly, note it for the future that it feels bad, and move on. It's perfectly natural to feel bewildered about it, but push it to the past and look for a woman who is really worth your time :)0
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