I just came clean with him this weekend about the termination back in June, we had only been dating (not exclusively) for about 3 months but it was 100% his..We've gotten so much closer since and slowly letting each other in by telling truths , we figure it's the best way to know if we are compatible and not just physically attracted. Needless to say, he was devastated when I told him and called himself a murderer ( a little dramatic but emotional nonetheless). He only kept saying he wanted to know, I should have told him. He's upset, says I hurt him bad. Men, why would you want to know if someone you're casually dating was pregnant? How relevant is it if you weren't serious with that person yet?
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Those situations are always difficult :( However, you weren't serious, you weren't exclusive and since you are the one who has to carry the heavy burden of abortion or unwanted pregnancy the choice was yours and yours alone. If I was in a relationship with a girl, of course I'd want her to tell me, even though it's ultimately her decision. But if a girl got pregnant and we weren't serious I'd only want her to tell me IF she'd let me have a say in the matter. If's she's choosing abortion and there's nothing I can do about it and we're not together any more, then it would just create all this emotional turmoil that I'd be better off without.1