So I've started dating this girl who has had a crush on me for a couple years. (Not a very active one, per say, but one none the less.)
Since we've started dating, she's been making what she thinks are sneaky, but are really totally obvious attempts to be the person she thinks I want her to be. To be clear, I have never asked her to change. But she has even gone so far as to start getting a tattoo that she knew I would hate (she was right, its a tramp stamp with curse words! bleck) laser removed.
Shes changed other stuff too.
I'm not sure what I think about all this. My last girlfriend was a very 'take it or leave it' kinda person. So was the one before that. Someone actually changing for me makes me kinda uncomfortable, but not completely turned off.
What are your experiences with this? Is this a red flag or is this alright?
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i date the person as they are because I like them that way. I don't date a person I would want to change. if they decided they wanted to work on some habits that maybe bother me a little bit or take my advice on certain things than that's very sweet and I'm all for it.0