I talk to all races of guys but it seems white guys are more attracted to me. However, as soon as they find out that my father is black they stop talking to me. I mean like they ignore me. Like this one guy who took me out on a date he thought I was Latina. I have been mistaken for Hispanic most of my life. And even though I made some mistakes by sleeping with guys outside of a relationship. Even though I have learned from them and I don't do that. I can honestly say that I have failed to meet a white guy who would date me because of me. People don't believe me that I met guys like this but Is It normal to feel that when I get back into dating.
Because I don't want a relationship right now.
I don't think I will be dating any white men.
Also I am more focused on my career now so I'm not looking for a boyfriend nor do I want to have sex with any one. I don't sleep with guys like that now.
My ex boyfriend was white and we were together for 6 months. He was sweet and I didn't have sex with him but he was a coward because he broke up with me through text message with no explanation and then he ignored me 2 weeks before he did it and he never gave me an explanation
Currently I am not sexually active and single. I don't plan on having sex with any guy. Yet it seems that even though I'm doing things the "right way" I'm still getting my feelings hurt.
Should I just not date white men? I'm not saying they are all bad but for me it has not exactly been a pleasant ride
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Growing up in a predominately white community I found myself crushing on a few white boys in school even though I never intended to be in an actual relationship with them. I just thought some of them were cute. I still find some of them physically attractive. However, I'm just not attracted enough to enter a relationship with one. I agree with another response that a lot of white men are vulgar and use too much toilet humor, which I find disgusting and immature. If they're not immature then they're egotistical a-holes. I know this sounds like a stereotype but I tend to associate white men with STDs and drugs because they're so promiscuous and curious about experimenting with everything. They also lack control of their emotions and that turns me off. The irony is that as far as friends go, I have more male white friends then I have female white friends. I find that I can only tolerate very few white women so there's no way I could be with a white man who no doubt has a white mother and white sisters. I'm an Asian woman, by the way, and only prefer to be in a relationship with Asian men.1