What would you assume if you realized that you are the one who always initiate's contact with the girl you're dating? Even though she's always ready and willing to spend time with you?
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I'm of two minds:
1. the great relationships I've had have been very balanced. I'm completely capable of taking control of everything, but I'm secure enough to enjoy being treated specially and to like being the center of attention.
2. It might actually be really nice to have total control of my schedule. If I wanted to go do something with my friends, I could just not contact her and then she would not have any reason to complain because she never asked me to come see her.
I think balance works better.1