So everyone knows that a coffee "date" can be a chance for two people to become more friendly with each other, in an innocent let's-be-friends way. It can also be like a date that isn't a date, where the purpose is to see whether the person can be a romantic interest...
I want to ask this guy out for coffee (potentially on the romantic interest level) but since a coffee "date" can be taken either way - I don't really know how HE will view it, since we are in a position where it technically could be either way. If I plan to ask him to coffee, I know that I should pay (and I don't have a problem with this) but if I OFFER to pay then it automatically makes it seem like the date type of coffee date
The only thing is I don't know where exactly he stands so I'm hesitant to make it seem like that type of date until I get a better idea of where he stands...do I offer to pay or not?!
Other words of wisdom?
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You're taking it too seriously! Have a fun time and I'm sure he'll be fine with each paying for their own.0