This friend that I have, we met this summer and we both clicked with each other. She's just like me and it's so easy for me to understand her and she says that she feels the same way about me. I like so much having her on my lap and tickle her so I can touch her body. We never kissed. We just sit and cuddle and we text almost all the time and I think we flirt a little. I like so much having her around and talk and play with her. We're so much a like. She understands me like anyone else and thinks like me on almost every subject. Sometimes we haven´t even finish one phrase and the other already knows what's the other going to say.
This all would be right if I didn't have a girlfriend and if she didn't have a boyfriend.
I'm so confused about what's happening... Please help me..
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Clearly you are not ready for a committed serious relationship. I always feel like people rush into relationship just because they really want to be in one instead of waiting for one to come around who is right for them. You can date without being committed to someone and I think a lot of people don't think about that. You should get to know many girls before settling that way you won't end up in your prediciment of feeling unsure. Right now I suggest you really think about where you are going with your relationship. Is your girlfriend someone you are serious with? Can you see yourself with her a year from now? 5 years from now? Are you with her because you just love having someone that you can regularly go to for sex? Why are you in a relationship? Does your girlfriend make you happy? If your relationship is pointless then don't waste your time being in it. Talk to your girlfriend and tell her you are not ready to be serious. She might be upset but she will get over it because you can't make someone be serious. If they aren't ready then they aren't ready. Right now you are letting another girl get close to you instead of telling her you are not interested. Do you want to do the idiot move by cheating and ending your relationship on bad terms? Or would you rather just be honest and tell your girlfriend that you are not ready to be serious and that you need some time to think that way you can end on good terms and might still be able to be friends without being a cheater. COMMUNICATION THE BEST WAY TO PREVENT DRAMA!0