When you're stuck on a girl who you're not even dating. The reason I fell for her is because she's the first female to actually thInk I was funny and do flirty stuff like punch me when I teased her, give me compliments, adjust my clothes. She was in an ltr so I didn't bother with her too much, then she became single.
I went after her then because she continued the flirting. Let's just say despite all that she didn't seem overly enthused when I asked her out. We eventually went on a date, which was mediocre, but her attraction seemed to disappear overnight.
Ocassionally we talked after that,but went 6 weeks without mostly talking. Obviously I didn't want her if I never asked her again an vice versa. But with so few females in my life, I fixated on her mentally and emotionally.
Then one day, she and my friend and I went to lunch for an hour and by the end of it they were dating before my eyes. Making it worse my friend almost has the same personality as me, except he's more extroverted.
I spent the rest of the day crying, pathetic as it sounds, but it was cleansing and the next day I resolved never to worry about her again. But its hard to truly get over her since I see her all the time making goo-goo eyes at my friend and she doesn't hate me, just neutral, so I can't hate her and make it easier
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Boy, oh boy… poor baby,
I feel for you that you were crying, its not pathetic, it cleanses out the soul.
You are in a very tricky situation here, have you told her exactly how you feel about her?
Honestly is the best policy to get over her, tell her how you truly feel and it will help you emotionally detach yourself from her…or not.
Seriously, I think you need to tell her, this feeling of you being fixated mentally and emotionally is a feeling that won’t go away unless you explain to her how you feel.
I really think that she will appreciate your honesty.
How do you know that she isn’t secretly feeling the same way for you and is too afraid to tell you because you might push her away.
Honestly, I think her dating your friend is a way of getting your attention and making you jealous because she likes you.
And you said it yourself, your friend has the same personality as you do...doesn’t that tell you something?
So, its your decision, if you tell her the truth you might not be so stuck on her, or a new relationship will develop.
She won't hate you, she will be thankful that you were out coming and straightforward about your emotions, chicks dig that. :)