How can I date a white girl?

Hi, I'm a 23 year old employed student who is studying electronics engineering technology and I am part French, Native American and Dominican. I currently live in New York City. I've dated females from a wide spectrum of ethnic backgrounds but I can never meet a nice white girl. I feel like this is a bit outside of my power but maybe you guys/girls might be able to at least lead me in the right direction. I appreciate any suggestion/input that may be beneficial to my cause. (:


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  • I wouldn't see how dating a white girl should be hard for you? Don't focus too much on it or don't get your hopes up that it will be amazing. It could be amazing, it could be a downer, that's the case for every relationship. Just go out with your friends, meet people, don't focus on "I have to date a white girl" or it won't happen.

    • Not quite sure why it would be difficult for me either. I've fairly confident in myself, I'm attractive and we'll rounded. Just are had the opportunity to even try! I agree that I could be getting my hopes up way too high. It's who I am. (: I'm an optimistic dreamer! And I've been going out and meeting new people for years now. Lol white people aren't too common my way.

    • Just let life take its roll. You'll find someone, whether she's black, white, asian,or whatever ... doesn't matter, right :)

    • No, it doesn't really matter. If I fall in love I fall in love. I just have a thing for white women. <3


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What Girls Said 4

  • Take her to dinner and ask her out like a normal guy :D

    • Lmao I would if I met white people as frequently as most but do not! I will take this advance though because it is definitely the truth!

    • That's a hell of an ignorant question btw.

  • maybe it's that giant nose that covers your head. LMFAO

  • You live in NYC and can't find an 'open minded' white girl to date? I don't know how that's possible, that place is huge.

    • Well keep in mind that New York City has multiple boroughs which are each pretty huge on their own. Not too many white people whatsoever where I live. I have 0 white attractive female acquaintances.

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    • Idk really, the free ones are POF and okcupid. I have some friends on there and their alright. I don't know what kinda white girl your looking for but you have the advantage of being in an awesome city where stuff is always going on! I would try venturing out of w/e borough your in and try something different, something that attracts lots of different races. I would go to show many shows.

    • *so many shows

  • I think because you fantasize about it, it is harder. You also need to be in the right area.


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