I've written a profile that has a good amount of detail without being long, with a little bit of humor. I have 3 pics up, and no not any topless mirror shots! I know I'm no George Clooney, but I'm not terrible looking. I've sent out a bunch of messages, always asking the girl something about what I read in her profile or mentioning something that we both like. I haven't had any responses so far, and most of the girls have been online so they clearly read the messages.
It's getting pretty depressing. What does it take to get a response? Girls always say in their profiles how they hate guys that use bad grammar and slang, and topless mirror pics. I haven't done any of those things. And I'm not a delusional guy going for out of my league. Sure, I'll send a message to a really good looking girl, but I'm actually pretty open to most girls.
I'm in university, employed, clean cut, decent height (5'11). Will I ever get a response!?
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Just don't go there. Spent a month of my life trying very hard to get a response, when I managed to get one. I just didn't want to keep messaging her back. Because of all the energy and time It had cost me just to get a response. one month wasted. On girls who are just too hard to pick. I though it was me at first and got depressed for a while. Then I started going out to bars and try the same type of Hi, what did you do that was fun today? type of question. I managed to get a phone number in less than 2 hours. The girls on POF are just Fat/Angry and Unworthy. I've read comments from guys that when to POF and spent a year only getting few responses and being seriously disappointed when they met the girl they've spent so much time flirting with.
You'll have time to die Twice before having sex with any one girl.2