I am currently in a weird relationship with my male best friend. We kissed one night, but haven't kissed since. We have however cuddled and been close to kissing again. He told me today about how beautiful I was and how it drives him crazy... regardless of this, we are still "just friends." He likes to bring up how he wants to be single and he likes to talk about other girls when we are around other people... but when we are alone... it's a whole other ball game. He's going to hold my hand and brush his nose against mine... Does he know he's killing me? No. I haven't told him. Should I?
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No don't tell me. Suffer in silence, that's what real friendship is about.
Seriously though, there's two possibility here : either he is using you to get attention and the feeling of being desired by someone (even loved?) and really want to be single and just do whatever he wants with any girl he meets, or he is afraid of admitting he has feelings towards you cause that guy seems to think being manly = using girls.
The only way you can find out which one it is, is by talking to him. Plus if he is your best friend that shouldn't be too complicated to do...
And do not hesitate or shy out, just sort out this awkward situation you'll win in any case : you either get the boyfriend of your dream or finally get how selfish and stupid this guy might be.