I met a guy recently, I'm 22 and he is 28, and he hasn't stopped texting me and wanting to call me since we first me. The way we met was a bit dodgy, it was in a club. I only spoke to him for less than two minutes and my girlfriend gave my number to him after I refused. He made me upset last night over text, after he mentioned something dirty, and I told him that he can look elsewhere if he is going to behave like that and he said sorry and that he didn't mean it that way. I accepted his apology and he has still been chasing me. I didn't text him all day and he texted me just before saying that I have forgotten about him. I am really testing him. I have never had a relationship and don't want him to think I am like all the other girls he has been with. I guess only time will tell. He is always the first to initiate texts which is nice although the way he was 'testing' me, if you can call it that, wasn't nice. Should I still be giving him a chance?
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I don't like the fact that he:
1) Is in a rush: Life has taught me that when a guy is in a rush, then he isn't going to stick around you for long. When a guy takes his time to know you, then most probably he is going to invest a lot of his emotions and time to be by your side for quite sometime. I wouldn't trust a guy who is in a rush even though he doesn't know you. Don't let him rush you into anything you don't want to do.
2) said something dirty: I think he wants sex. You are beautiful and young. He might be attracted to you so he is trying to turn you on. Kudos to you for drawing a boundary.
3) is naggy: I think he is pressuring you which I don't like.
You might give him a chance if you want, but you have to take care when dealing with him. Don't let him pressure you into doing anything just because "he loves you" or "he has strong feelings for you" or "You make his heart beat". Don't let him fool you by a couple of loving words or a list of sweet gestures. I believe in giving people chances, but taking care of myself. You seem like a wise and smart girl who knows what she wants.
Hope this helps. :)3
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