I'm 20, and I've been working on my self-confidence for a while. I've never had a boyfriend, and I was down about that, but I figured, if I want to date, I just gotta get in there and do it.
I go to a pretty small school, so most guys have at least seen me before, if they don't already know me.
I went on my first dinner date (I guess?) two weeks ago, but I don't think it went that well, as he hasn't really tried to contact me since. I dunno.
Anyway, how do I get these dates? I'm being nice, open, and friendly to guys. But I probably have a reputation for being unapproachable. Help.
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Join a club for people with your interests, so you'll have a reason to be near some guys all the time, and you can get to know them without all the formality of a 'date.' You don't need to start dating to have friendships, and then maybe relationships. There are better, less artificial ways, you know.0