White guy dating black girl for the first time....
What are some of your worries/thoughts/concerns? I know it's new thing for him and I'm just curious.
Most Helpful Guy
Pretty much, you're going to have to prepare for some scrutiny, either from strangers, acquaintances, or even family. The issue of black/white interracial dating is still an "issue" with some black and white ppl, unfortunately.
If you can withstand the occasional stare, stank-face, and family member saying things about how their family won't accept you or whatever...who knows? That can make your relationship stronger. :)
What Guys Said 4
I wouldn't have worries, just concern for if someone insulted her (then again that would be for whatever girl I dated even if she wasn't black). I usually wouldn't care at all, id just focus on her
I wouldn't have any concerns at all.
All the problems will be in your heads.
What Girls Said 2
I mean... what do you expect people to tell you? It's the same situation as any two people dating for the first time.
Really really get to know him before you put your trust in him and make sure he has good honest intentions.but I guess you'd do that with any guy..
Being culturally compatible is a big one. I'm black and I don't know how or if I could be compatible with most white guys because I like Tyler Perry movies and he probably likes Seth Rogen movies, our senses of humor might be different...ok that was a dumb example pretend I didn't say that but you know what I mean..but everyone is different.make sure he treats you the way he's supposed to
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