He says he simply likes to be in the physical proximity of them every once in a while. Frankly he doesn't socialize at all...he's always by himself. If he's not isolated in his apartment, he is running in the park alone or in a bookstore alone. He puts headphones on to make sure people don't talk to him.
Something that kinda worried me was how he told me that the gets the occasional desire to love someone and care for her, but he simply solves it by kissing his arm and imagining it. It wears off "after a couple of hours, tops"
He's always been kinda off. Deep depression in adolescence to the point of multiple hospitalizations, never had a girlfriend or even a date. Only a few male acquaintances but no true friends.
I'm not trying to change him, I'm just curious if I'd ever see him get in a relationship. I wish I could be an uncle. If you could make a prediction, and ladies especially...would you even date someone with that sort of history? I figure if you've not done something by a certain point, you just kinda miss it and it's over.
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My bros like that I never got him I think he maybe asexual too but apparently he's bisexual well that's what he says. Anywhoo I found our recently that as a child he went through a traumatic experience and it explains why he is the way he is now. He tells me he dealt with the past but I don't think so, cos he does exactly what your brother does. I know my brother hasn't come to terms with his past he just locked it way and is unaware that he's behavior is strange.
I personally wouldn't want to date a person like that because there's too much baggage involved however I don't mind being a good friend to them, to help them deal with their issues.
I strongly believe that you should love yourself and know yourself before you enter into a meaningful relationship and I wouldn't be compatible with someone like that.0