Just got out of a very long term relationship.. very rusty in the dating department...
Now I am thinking about just approaching ladies in my everyday life... I a bit insecure due to being long out of the market. I am feeling very ugly in the looks department. I feel very intimidated with well dressed women . That I am not matching up to their looks.
I have a good job and income, try to dress well...
If I appear a bit nervous would that be a total deal breaker? would you give somebody who is nervous, average looking, but polite and respectable a chance ?
Any additional helpful tips appreciated.
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Well, it depends on the girl. I, for one, can appreciate a guy that can put aside his I securities long enough to approach me. Average looks paired with a great personality is always a winner in my book. :) if that's you in the pic, you aren't a bad looking guy. I'm glad you are thinking about getting back out there and I really think you should. I believe that confidence will come with more experimenting in the market. Some girls like confidence and think its a serious turn on, but you shouldn't let that stop you. I don't think chemistry and insecurities go hand and hand so I don't see a problem inthat area...as long as you don't let those insecurities control your actions. I'm an intimidating girl and I know that its hard to approach me because of it. I've been told several times infact. So I think you should take my advice. Maybe starting out small at first though. Don't just jump in and say come out with me on yada yada. Buy her a drink. Try to start a conversation.
Hope I helped :)1