Whenever I hang out (doing non date things) with guys more than once or twice it seems that they think that we are "seeing each other" even though I have told them all that I DO NOT DATE. When this happens they get mad at me for "leading them on" even though I didn't do anything that I could see as such. How do I keep this from happening?
I had though telling them all that I don't date would help it but it doesn't! I'm losing all my friends!
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First, most guys are use to girls giving them mixed signals or resisting them to a degree and subsequently have adapted by being persistent in their pursuit and somewhat dismissive to some of things that women say to get rid of them, unless emphatically stated. In short, guys have learned to adjust to the women that have played games with them.
Along with being direct, I think that you should treat your male friends, to a degree, like you treat your female friends, such as conversing with them about other guys that you find attractive or want to date, dates your going on and their opinion on the clothes that you should wear on them, etc. to avoid giving them false hope.