You know...she thinks you're a catch for someone else, but not her and she'd rather date random guys online.
What's weird is that I thought I had been out of friend zone the whole time since we never talked on the phone, always teased each other, never talked about relationships or shared deep secrets with each other.
For some reason, it hurts more coming from someone I know than someone I don't know. How can I deal with that? How do I deal with her now? I don't want to hear about the randoms she is dating or is gonna date in the future.
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She's not attracted to you physically or emotionally, or both. She's not going to give you a completely honest answer as to why, but it could be any number of reasons. She could think you're clingy, too emotional, sees you as a little brother, etc, doesn't care for your face/build, etc.
Your best bet is to cut her off completely. You're going to get very jealous seeing her date a bunch of random guys. Why give her the benefit of having your emotional support when she doesn't like you back? The only men who get in the friend zone are the ones who allow themselves to stay there. Instead, go date some other women and ignore her and don't hang out with her. If she wants other men, you can't stop her, but you can stop from torturing yourself and having her do this.
Man up and move on. Time to find a new girl that is into you and finds you attractive and emotionally engaging. Cut off all contact with the old girl and allow yourself to be open to new possibilities. You can't just be "friends" with her, as that will never work.0
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