I moved 7 hours away to go to school this year, and recently I met someone and we have awesome chemistry. We talk every day, our phone conversations last at least 3 hours and its great. We haven't established an actual relationship though. We met online, talked for 3 weeks and have had one date, with another one this weekend.
I planned on going home for the holidays for one week in the middle of December, however, my mom decided to "surprise" me with tickets to come home earlier, so that I will essentially be gone for 3 weeks.
I am afraid that it could ruin what I have with this guy because of how new it is, and I don't know how appropriate it is to ask him if he will still be here when I get back. Would that be wrong of me to ask?
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I don't think that's wrong at all.
Be honest with the dude, and say that your mom surprised you with tickets home, and you're gonna be gone earlier and longer than you expected.
Make sure to let him know that you do really like him, and make sure to keep contact in some way, shape or form (phone, texting, IM, webcam, emails, etc).
Like I've said before, guys find it refreshing when a girl is open with her feelings and thoughts, because frankly, while you're back home, he may be wondering where HE stands with YOU as well. Re-assure him that you have feelings for him! :)0