I have a long history with the guy I'm seeing right now. We dated seriously for a year and a half and have maintained a friendship since we broke up seven months ago. Within the past two weeks, we started seeing each other romantically and have spent a TON of time together.
However, he has a fraternity date formal and, since some of his friends don't like me since we broke up, he decided to take someone else. Although he says he won't hook up with her, he doesn't know her well, and I think there's a lot of potential for things to go wrong as he's been promiscuous in the recent past. The party is tomorrow, so it's too late to uninvite her, but he invited her just yesterday, knowing that I was unhappy with it and felt like it was a big "f you" to me. Explaining how I feel has done no good, and I don't want to be controlling...
Basically, I want to know what this means from a guy's prospective and how other girls would handle this situation. Thank ya!
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Why don't his friends like you? Are they nice guys or twats?
He only asked this girl yesterday, omg, and she knows about you? She doesn't? Oh right, then you need to tell her. Tell her that you were together, tell her you've spent loads of time with him over the past couple of weeks. See if she is aware of this. She might ditch him.
Do you really want a guy who is messing you about? Sounds like that is what you've got.
To call his bluff why not invite him round to yours straight after the event? If he says he will "be busy" then you know the score. Half the world is guys baby, pick a better one!0