Hi, So I recently discovered mails from the site find... in my boyfriend his email. I wanted to know what he was doing there, since we have been dating for over six years, so I made an account myself. When I wanted to look at his account I saw that he was only a standard member, so he probably doesn’t pay to contact people and that he listed himself in a wrong country. But I also saw that he was interested in intimate chats and discrete relationships. I don’t know if he just uses the site for watching the girls or if he is cheating on me? I don’t think I can confront him with this, because I’ve obviously been snooping. xXx
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Sometimes you can see in small detail the last time he's been online? Or, but that's kinda taking it too far, email him under your fake name and get to know him through that, but that's mean.
That's a bit too far so I wouldn't do that.
What is a better idea, according to me, is to have a nice night out with him, go to dinner, have a nice conversation about whatever and bring up the topic dating sites. See how his behavior is during the normal topics, see if his behavior (verbal and non-verbal) changes between the normal topics and the topic of dating sites. (I'm such a nerd, this may sound a bit too far but I just learned about lie detection, lol).
You could ask his opinion on it, tell him one of your friends told you about her guy being on such a site while they're dating for quite a long time, see what he says to that, ...0
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