If you want your ex back but they are on a dating website, do you think that will make it harder to get them back because it's easier for them to meet people online than in person? Or could it be easier to get them back because they might not like who they meet? Like if they have bad dates...haha. Just want some perspective.
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I think dating sites make relationships harder in general. I often curse dating sites because it does seem like a lot of guys use them because they can get dates relatively effortlessly, and hence don't see a reason to put an effort into a relationship. This is why ideally, I want a guy (one day) who doesn't and hasn't ever used dating sites. But do those guys even exist anymore... .
When my ex broke up with my I discovered him on a dating site a few months alter. I wanted him back, and it broke my heart to see him there and know that he was actively looking for someone else, and messaging others, and probably meeting others. I know that for me, it would have been a major issue that he was (or had been) on there if we had gotten back together at some point.
But anyway, the fact your ex is on there might suggest he doesn't want to give you another chance, but I've also heard that a lot of guys join dating sites after a break up because they want to see that other women still want them, but they aren't seriously interested in anything. So it's hard to say if in your particular case it makes things harder, or easier, or has no effect at all.0