How can shyness be overcome when dating?

When dating, there are many reservations about what should be said to the other, how do you overcome that?


Most Helpful Girl

  • Just use the rule of 10, like: what I'll do, will it have consequences for me in the next 10 minutes? 10 months? 10 years?

    Also, what can be the worst response, she'll ignore you or she'll end the date. Try not to see it as a huge thing, if she's not into you, she won't date you no matter what you do or say. But if she's into you, she'll let some things you do/say slip.

    So don't be shy, just talk about what you want, and if you don't get a good response, well, lesson learned!


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  • As a guy you should say as little as possible. When you do speak it should only be things that will make her interest level rise. Instead, you should try to keep her talking..asking follow up questions etc. This shows that you're listening to her...and have interest in what she's saying.

  • Once you hit the realization that girls aren't interested in that kind of guy, you'll force yourself to change.