I asked him out on a coffee date which went well (he paid for my drink, we chatted and laughed etc), but was cut short when the shop closed. We hugged goodbye/ see you at work and a couple days later he left to attend a course abroad.
Now I won't see him until January, but I just found out from an old classmate of his that he's actually really shy, so what came off as disinterest could just be shyness?
We spoke a little the night after the date at a party, but I left early and we haven't been in contact since. Is texting him now to suggest a date in the new year a bad idea? I don't want to come off as desperate or creepy, but I want to let him know I'm still interested.
I'm going abroad to see family over Christmas, so if I text just before I go (while he's still abroad) then chances are I won't hear from him til I get back :/
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Probably should talk with him a bit, see where he's at first.0