Ok so this guy asked for my number at a concert I was at a couple weeks back. I know OF him, but do not know him. Basically he is the brother of the manager of the group I saw. So I have known people who know him, but I want the scoop on him without anyone knowing I'm going on a date with him.
My sister and mother know, but I don't want friends knowing because I like to lead a private life. I know people who might have the scoop on him, but they're male friends of mine and I have a feeling if they knew it was a "date" they would say things on purpose to deter me from going out with him. (basically most my guy friends are cockblocks in general towards any guy trying to talk to me)
so my question is, what can I say to ask around about this guy and get some info without making it obvious I'm interested in dating him?
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First if they are a true friend they would not deliberately try to block any romance I would hope.
Can you casually ask them what they think of him as you find him rather interesting. You do not have to mention any dates or that you spoke with him.
That might be the only way with out running a police background check or stalking him.. LOL