This girl and I have been talking for about two months and we had our first date this last weekend. Last night, she texted me to tell me that things are going to be really hectic for her this week. I asked her if it was just work stuff and she replied that it was pretty much everything.
We both really like each other. I want to text her tomorrow and every other day to tell her that I'm thinking about her and that I'm hoping she has a good day. Like if I were to say "Hey, I'm thinking about and praying for you and I hope you have a great day. No need to reply :-)", would that be okay? I don't want to stress her out more.
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Its a really sweet text, and I feel ya. But I'll give you my bro to bro opinion. I used to act similarly when I met my girl. And sadly, what I interpreted as being at the brink of love, she interpreted as being on the fence and took advantage of that. I mean not only at the time, but even to this day she recalls the days I used to send her those kinds of texts and almost threatens me with them, saying I don't text her that anymore. I say do it, be thoughtful, be real, be Godly but in all things stay sincere to who you are and don't raise the bar too high for yourself. My girlfriend likes to benefit from situations and likes to take advantage of the situation. Sadly, that side of her accounted for a lot of distance between us. I'm not saying your girl is like mine, but in all things, never be over the top and always scan for reciprocity. You can't be the only one caring. She needs to make time for you too. We are all uber busy yet we can all make time for what we want. Finally your biggest mistake would be to over-care. As long as you stay true to yourself, your won't be delving into that. Don't do something or send a text so that she can have a good impression of you, or that you fit in the mold she has in mind. She will like you for you when you show your real colors. Hope it works! Cheers!0