I met a great guy almost 2 weeks ago and we are dating. we've been having a blast together! Just today he told me that he is finding it harder than he thought to balance talking to 2 people at the same time.."I like you and want to give you more effort."i told him basically that I like him too. He says "I just don't want to waste your time" I asked him why would he say that, "us not hanging out or talking as much..and I'm really sexual"
In my mind that meant that he likes me enough to be in a relationship but is going to cheat because he can. Am I right
We have been dating so I don't expect to be the only one yet because I'm not his girlfriend. Its difficult because we really liked each other but I can't take the possibility of him cheating esp since I've been cheated on before in past relationships. I know from experience, that I can't do anything about it or change him.
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Lol no, he's trying to coerce you into sleeping with him. That basically this "other girl" (if there is one) is putting out, and that he won't hang out or talk with you as much if you don't do that. I've honestly never had a guy try to push me in this manner, or be so sneaky about it, but that's what he's trying to do.
Your best bet is to say, "hey listen, I can see this must be really hard for you, and if you think you'll probably hurt me and waste my time, lets just stop talking, ok?" His plan will be shattered. Don't let liking him stop you from getting what you deserve or force you to do things you're not comfortable with. All guys are 'really sexual.' He's not as great of a guy as you think.2