I called this girl (at 11pm), and she didn't answer so I left a voice mail. She responded via text around lunch the next day that she was "out and about" at the time and couldn't talk. I couldn't talk until I got home. When I got home I texted her. Is she expecting a call (when?), or is she just leading me in circles because she doesn't want to talk/isn't interested?
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Sometimes a girl just happens to be busy. There's a guy I met about three weeks ago, maybe four. Because I'm in school and it's close to the end of the school term, I really couldn't spare the time to go hang out with him. I was able to text him a little on occasion, when he texted me. At one point he asked me if he was just bothering me (if I just wanted to be left alone), but I explained again in all sincerity that I was just busy until a certain date. He asked if I'd go out with him the day after my term ended and I agreed. Simple. You just need to be brave enough to ask if she feels that you're bothering her; be direct and let her say what's on her mind about you.0