How come guys loose interest if you show interest too soon?
It also confuses a girl when a guy comes on so strong during the first month and then backs off.
I have no problems attracting a guy. Just transitioning dating to relationship.
Any good tips for next time I start dating again because I really do not want to fall into the friends with benefits trap like I did with the last guy.
I felt like I got deceived because he still kept pursing me after I told him earlier on I did not want casual.
I do not want to be in this situation again.
Did not even tell him I wanted to be in a relationship. Just did not friends with benefits and to waste my time if it was not going to go anywhere.
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The entire "where's it going" conversation is like nails on a chalkboard for a lot of guys. You can't force a relationship from day one. I like to let things grow naturally. If why ou are dating you are taking the risk that things may not work out. Just go with the flow, I wouldn't even bring up the idea of "not wanting to be involved in anything casual". It makes a person seem pressed and anxious. Those people usually think too much, read too much into everything. It just createst tension. I wouldn't even discuss the possibility of a relationship until after maybe 3 months of dating at the very least.0
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